Yes,Yes, and Yes.
I'll admit those three things before I even so start into this rant.
Brad's sister is not roughly 5 months pregnant. While I was excited she was the situation soon turned into feeling pitty for the child she is pregnant with along with her 4 year old.
Shes almost 28 and doesn't need one child yet alone two. To this day she still smokes cigaretts AND weed AND AGAIN SHES 5 MONTHS PREGNANT.
She lives with Brad's momma. And has since she left her husband. Oh yea..shes still married and pregnant by another man. Who is a whopping whole 6 months older than me. I'm 22 almost 23.
She has a college degree but refuses to work in that field and has decided that waiting tables at two restaurants is better.
She can't even afford to get her own place yet alone keep up her car payment.
And her baby daddy..
Well, he's a cook at one of the said restaurants where she works..
They've been together roughly since maybe April.
He's got a son he never sees who is Brayden's age.
Didn't graduate high school.
Used to be a coke dealer.
Oh yea and hes got no where to live and isn't allowed to live with Brad's sister in her parents house so where does he sleep at night? Outside of Brad's parent's house in her car.
Yea so why am I bitter, petty and selfish?
Shes having a girl. Her second and none deserving of. I'm pissed because this little girl who deserves so much better..will ultimately trump my two children in the love that Brad's mom gives them.
She showers Brad's niece will more gifts than I've ever gotten in my life while my children just get a few things. She feels bad because "she has no father" UM YEA SHE DOES...HE LIVES IN HUNTSVILLE AND IS DOING RATHER WELL FOR HIMSELF DESPITE STILL BEING MARRIED TO BRADS SISTER.
I prayed so hard for it to be a boy simply because she doesn't want a boy.
SHES STILL BLOODY MARRIED! She doesn't want to do better for her children obviously by working these jobs and not using her degree which her parents help pay for.
Now I'm all for state assistance because without WIC we would have been broke with Brayden and now we have it for Aslynn as well as Medicaid for her as backup insurance.
But don't flipping abuse it. Milking more foodstamp money out only to have them find out...hahah.
And yet my deserving sister can't manage to get pregnant but this heifer can with no regrets.